Life & Identity Transition Coaching
For changes in identity, career, relationships, or place; loss of direction; and decisions you keep turning over without moving forward.
Explore life & identity transition coachingYou can understand a lot about yourself and still wonder what comes next.
Maybe you know the patterns. You’ve read the books. You can explain, in considerable detail, why you do the things you do.
And then there’s the decision you still haven’t made. The conversation you keep putting off. The life that no longer fits quite the way it used to.
Understanding matters. So does what happens after you close the book.
Through coaching and spiritual counseling, I help you listen to your experience, consider what matters, and find ways to move forward while some questions remain open.
No particular spiritual belief is required.
Maybe something here sounds familiar.
- “I’ve changed. My life hasn’t quite caught up.”
- “I left my religion, but I still miss having somewhere to belong.”
- “I know why I second-guess myself. I’m still doing it.”
- “Nothing is obviously wrong. Something still feels missing.”
- “I want a spiritual life without being told what I have to believe.”
- “I’m tired of making everything I feel into another thing to work on.”
Two ways to work together
Choose a starting point based on what you are navigating. The work can make room for both practical decisions and spiritual questions.
Spiritual Counseling
For changing beliefs, religious deconstruction, questions of meaning, and exploring a spiritual life without being told what to believe.
Explore spiritual counselingWhat might we talk about?
Every conversation is different. Here are a few examples of where we might begin.
“I left my religion. Now what?”
We might talk about what you miss, what you’re relieved to leave behind, and how both can be true. There may be a family conversation to navigate, a question about belonging, or a practice you want to keep without carrying the old beliefs with it.
“I understand the pattern. I still can’t make the decision.”
We might look at the actual choice in front of you. What needs deciding now? What are you afraid of losing? What matters beyond getting it right? Then we can identify a next step and leave room to learn from what happens.
“My life has changed, and I don’t know who I am in it.”
We might begin with ordinary things: how your days feel, who you spend them with, and what you miss or want more of. A changed life doesn’t always come with a new definition of yourself. We can work with what is here.
Notice. Discern. Participate.
A way of returning to the life in front of you. We may come back to these questions many times.
1
Notice
What is actually happening? We slow down enough to notice thoughts, feelings, bodily responses, and the circumstances around you.
2
Discern
What matters here? We consider values, relationships, responsibilities, and the choices that are yours to make.
3
Participate
What can you do with that? A conversation. A decision. A small experiment. Something you can try before every question has an answer.
Meet Cameron Eshgh
I’m Cameron. I’ve spent plenty of time trying to find the right words for myself. Psychological words. Spiritual words. Words that seemed, for a while, as though they might finally hold the whole thing.
Words help. They also have limits. I’m interested in how we live with what we understand—and with what we don’t yet have language for.
I’m an ordained interspiritual minister and a licensed psychotherapist in my separate clinical practice. Here at Resonare, I offer coaching and spiritual counseling. My work is queer-affirming, psychologically informed, and attentive to the relationships and circumstances that shape a life.
Coaching, spiritual counseling, and psychotherapy
Resonare offers coaching and spiritual counseling. It is not psychotherapy, does not diagnose or treat mental health conditions, and is not a substitute for licensed mental health care.
Psychotherapy can also explore identity, meaning, and spirituality. The distinction is the purpose and agreement of the work: Resonare supports reflection, discernment, and everyday choices; psychotherapy provides clinical care.
For psychotherapy, visit Cameron’s separate clinical practice at Peace Love Wellness. If clinical needs become primary, we will discuss seeking licensed mental health care.
You can begin before you have all the answers
You can tell me what’s changing, what you’re carrying, or simply that you’re not quite sure where to begin. We’ll talk about the kind of support you’re looking for and whether working together makes sense.